Original Guilt
A Saudi columnist on the sinfulness of women. MEMRI:
December 2007 op-ed in the Saudi English-language daily Arab News by Dania Al-Ghalib
“The Saudi woman is guilty. She is guilty of being born in a male-dominated society. Her fault is that she grows up in a society that stigmatizes her sex as a sin. She is held accountable because society believes she is underage - even if she is in her 60s -and implements a guardianship system over her as if she were a second-class citizen. It is very common for a Saudi woman - a widow or a divorcee - to have her young son as her guardian, and she needs his written permission to carry out official paperwork. He is in control of her life and her destiny.
“The Saudi woman can be blamed for living in a male-dominated society that opposes many rights for women despite the fact that the Prophet (peace be upon him) - the best of all humans - consulted a woman and listened to her advice. The Saudi woman is guilty of living in a society that confuses tradition with Islamic obligations, and idolizes what it sees as the latter to the extent that when she wants to discuss or object, she is accused of rebellion. Her fault is that society considers her an item of her guardian’s property. He can do anything he desires with her without asking her opinion or even listening to her.
“The Saudi woman is born unwanted. Everybody wants a male child rather than a female one.
“This innocent creature is forcibly taught what is prohibited and shameful before even knowing how to speak. She is guilty if she remains silent and guilty if she talks.
“She is guilty if she is divorced and guilty if she cleaves to her husband and children when someone tries unjustifiably to destroy her marriage. Her only refuge is prison, where she has the right to say no. She has lost all her rights and has fought for one that allows her to live only behind bars. Her sin is that she tried to protect her marriage and family. But traditions and customs challenged and destroyed her attempts.
“The Saudi woman is guilty for being raped, in darkness or in daylight, because her society wants her locked in, producing legal children and never leaving her house unless she is dead and of course accompanied by a guardian. She is guilty when brutal beasts tear her body and soul apart, threatening her with weapons and defamation because society believes she subjected herself to them and she deserves what happens to her.
“She is guilty because society prohibits her from driving and forces her to live at the mercy of a foreign driver. He might rape her one day or make money by allowing others to rape her, and then she will be the one who is blamed for having put herself in such position and went out with a driver without her legal guardian.
“The Saudi woman is guilty because she is part of her guardian’s property even when he is a criminal, serving time in jail and he marries her off to his colleague in prison who is awaiting execution. Society is aware of this and apparently sees no harm in such. In fact, the community blessed this marriage and arranged for them to be legally alone together. And the woman’s fault is that she is the daughter of a criminal.
“The Saudi woman is guilty of being haunted by spinsterhood and not accepting misyar and all other types of male-invented marriages. She is also guilty if she accepts being abandoned by her husband when he feels tired and bored with her and wants a new wife. She is guilty if she objects to anything and her legal guardian beats her until he breaks her ribs or permanently disfigures her. His right is to beat her and make her obey and listen, even if that means deforming her physical features as a woman and taking away her beauty.
“She is guilty when others confiscate her property or real estate by impersonating her, and her greatest sin is that her identity stems from her guardian. The Saudi woman is always guilty and anyone who thinks of dealing with her humanely is a criminal.”
MEMRI and other sources have offered up a lot of articles about Saudi backwardness lately that prompt eye-rolling, disgust and horror, but it’s noteworthy and heartening that there appears to be a vocal movement within the Kingdom of Saud to do something about it. For a society that for all the trappings of modern technology remains enmired in a particularly dusty, tribal corner of the 14th century, it’s a start.
Sentence Just, Monarch Merciful
Topics: saudi arabia
Posted by Jules Crittenden at 10:35 am on Saturday, February 9, 2008
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February 9th, 2008 at 2:59 pm
So the Saudis are still living in a dusty, tribal corner of the 14th century. What’s the excuse for Western, supposedly enlightened, people who don’t speak out about this?
February 9th, 2008 at 4:38 pm
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February 9th, 2008 at 9:13 pm
Rebeccah, Jules,
Way back when Jimmah was Prez the Saudis wanted some fancy weapons…we wanted the Saudi’s to educate their woman in exchange. The theory being…that educated woman would eventually want various things that all educated woman want.
So we are coming up on 30 years of this diabolical super secret plot now…and that first wave of educated woman are doing exactly as expected. Demanding their rights.
The part most folks miss…is that these demands aren’t being seriously sensored…the Saudi’s are beginning to have a serious discussion about the role of Woman in Society.Of course it is in the English Language paper..and only educated people can read english.
We would all like the Saudi Society to transform by tomorrow morning at nine…but rapid social transition frequently ends up being violent transition.
February 9th, 2008 at 9:53 pm
I understand your point, SoldiersDad. My comment was aimed squarely at our own elitist critics who don’t believe at all that we should be keeping the pressure on the Saudis (or any inherently cruel, backward society) to join the 21st century. Just because they’re gradually getting there doesn’t mean we should let up, because if we do, those women demanding their rights will just vanish without having accomplished much of anything.